3rd attempt to jee mains

[neeraj_dubey]

i am actually in a state of dilemma at present , it's been very disappointing year for me i got 108 in jee mains (65,000) and got ECE in Jiit noida , mech. in Thapar (which i missed filling ) , BITSAT -285, JEE ADV.- 125
and now i feel deeply sadden about my pity condition.
i would like the members of this forum to help me out with best possible option , i am thinking of risking one more year for NITS at least which is certainly not beyond my reach if i work sincerely . i used to get about 120 -150 in JEE mains mock for resonance but messed it big time at the important moment as i went for improvement even after getting 79%,for BITSAT and could not focus primarily on jee mains thus scoring less and getting very low score .
should i go for it , i have told my mom and sis about it and they duly feel for me and will stand by my decision but i am really very sad and feel low while writing all this stuff when i know that people who are going to answer achieved that milestone within the time limit. and i have lost or rather wasted that time in procrastination and feeling very frustrated being away from family .
PLEASE HELP ME TO TAKE THE RIGHT DECISION.

[Anjali_arora]

Have you done choice filling for bitsat?
You would get something. Have you filled their form?
We will help you out donr worry. Also in which sector of Jaypee are you getting Ece?

[neeraj_dubey]

in sec.62 and after 1st iteration i am getting b pharma at pilani.

[Anjali_arora]

You applied for btech courses?
The first round iteration closed at 287 so you should surely get in an engineering course in second round. Have you done preference filling for bits engineering courses? Are you going to pay the waitlist fees?

[neeraj_dubey]

yes i am going for it but i am less optimistic about 2nd iteration. but i kept btech. courses on lower preference.

[neeraj_dubey]

please can anyone help me out.
it's very important for me to leed right path , no short measures can take place in my life now.

[PSL]

As @Anjali_arora said, you have good chances of getting an engineering course in BITS in the second round. Wait for it. If you get something you are interested in, why bother about the 3rd attempt. However, if you don't get an engineering course (less likely), then it will be wise to take the 3rd attempt and study hard for another year.

[neeraj_dubey]

SIR
i want to look upon how much is the risk involved in my decision of going for 3rd attempt .
ever since i thought of going with 3rd attempt i have got many doubts for example-

Q.1. where should i enroll my self i was previously in RESO. ALLAHABAD , but i will not go there , then where?(should i got to KOTA in jee mains batch.)

Q.2.should i join a coaching with 4 days a week so that i remain dependent on self study or go for 6 days a week and be fully indulged with coaching ? (probably FITJEE or RESONANCE)

and sir i feel that i have good knowledge and understanding in some major areas . so i would want to save my time there and practice more .
please let me know if someone has right answers to them .

[PSL]

Will you be comfortable with self study only? That way you will be able to give more time to hard topics and little time to the topics you are already strong in. Plus, you have your Reso materials. You can enroll in some AITS to get timely judgement about your progress.
Is this fine with you? Else we can look at some other options too.

[neeraj_dubey]

sir i would be comfortable with self study but the problem is my parents don't want me to stay at home since they feel i will become complacent and the fact that people living here would taunt them on my situation .so it is actually their fear which to some extend ends my chances of self studying at home but having said that if i find some other place like some relatives help me out then i will take up self study option.
But if i enroll in some coaching else ware then i will be indulged in it truly and pressure will always be there so that i don't loose my track , and topics like rotational , PnC , Probability , Optics,equilibrium are really weak on my part.
let me tell you sir, i live in Sagar (M.P.) and i went to my sisters place in allahabad (where only 3 of us i , my sister , and my jija lived ), i didn't go to kota because i was afraid of living alone then .but now i can handle that situation .
sir please let me know if it is right to think that way or i go with self study and can really bolster those weak topics on my own .
thanks you sir, please reply .

[neeraj_dubey]

i am not going to BITS ,
thanks.

[Anjali_arora]

no problem !
you can prepare by yourself that will give you a lot of time for self study. you can get mains specific books and go through the ncert by heart! you can do it! dont worry!

[neeraj_dubey]

well i have resonance material of mains + advance and including DPP and DLP .
so ,should i resolve them or get new package of jee mains and AITS

[Anjali_arora]

you would be having a clear idea of JEE Mains level by now so you can use the resonance portion as the resonances books are good. no need to get new books then. yes take jee mains level practice test papers of arihant. that would help

[neeraj_dubey]

one big doubt i am actually not able to decide that should i stay in my home or go to some other place like DELHI, KOTA or self study is enough because i have not done topics like rotational , PnC , probability, optics so i find doubts in these topics frequently how will i be able to clarify them by home itself.

[PSL]

See joining a coaching just for these 5-6 topics will not be a wise idea. You can study them on your own. Watching videos on youtube would help. And if you still face any doubts we are here to help you. Self study will give you a lot of time daily. If you join coaching, there will be some wastage of time in travelling and exhaustion after the classes.
As far as the place is concerned, if you can't stay at your home, can you stay at allahabad for one more year?

[neeraj_dubey]

sir it's really a very crucial and important decision as of now i might not be able to go to Allahabad because my parents don't want me there rather they say that go to KOTA or DELHI .
i live in joint family and i will go else ware depending on the fact that i get some support from outside place wherever i go .

[Harsh_Narwani]

Aspirant

See i m also an aspirant and not a mentor, but I can really tell u an imp thing
I m also thinking to go for 3rd attempt but from type of doing research on it i found its not gud(motivation,bad luck , 2 yr gap , placements,etc etc.).
I m thinking for drop bcz i scored BITSAT:200.
Why don't u take BITS Hyderabad any branch and get branch change (its easier than drop and wiser and on ur resume it won't b 2 yr gap?
I wrote it bcz don't take 2nd drop as 1st drop , there's a lot of difference.
Regarding coaching , I wud highly suggest u to opt for Allen/Reso,kota over DELHI/Allahabad (not delhi bcz its mains and nt advanced), i can tell u this since i have lot friends in kota and myself studied in kota for full 1 month and i hav full idea regarding kota.
If u opt for self study (which i don't recommend) watch MOHIT TYAGI Sir(Resonance,jaipur) videos for maths (YOUTUBE), i can Give u guarantee u can't find a teacher like him in whole india ,do some search on him and watch his videos , u'll get what i m trying to say, and for revision watch MATHONGO (anup gupta sir) videos for mains , they r best videos fr revision and completing syllabus fast ,for physics u shud watch Physics galaxy (ashish arora sir, ALLEN,jaipur) , for chem (and some topics of phy and maths) ANY TIME PADHAI ACADEMY (VINEET KHATRI sir,vibrant,now bansal,kota).

IF U GET BITS HYDERABAD TAKE IT WITHOUT THINKING ANYTHING AND WORK HARD TO GET BRANCH CHANGE (dont take B.Pharma) ,attend all rounds of counselling till last, even take M.Sc CHEM.

[neeraj_dubey]

Thank you harsh narwani for your support I am going for partial drop to prepare for mains .
I too became afraid of those moments which come during drop year where you feel deeply saddened when things don't go your way , thus it is a total sensible decision on my part that I go for partial drop beside this I am going to take bigger challenge of balancing college and mains .
Well after thinking a lot and looking to every possible prospect I am going for IT in jiit noida 62 so as to get lesser pressure from college side .
You should know that by opting for Msc. Program I might not be able to focus on jee mains for next year.
Thanks for reply and please be free to reply .

[Harsh_Narwani]

Why do u want to give jee mains again when u r getting BITS HYDERABAD M.Sc ?? All BITS campuses r mostly same (moreover Hyderabad has great advantage as it is IT city and having IIT Hyd and IIIT Hyd)
Pls b aware that if u compete BITS and colleges through MAINS only there's one clg IIIT-Hyderabad which can b compared to/comes very close to BITS bit other colleges r never better than BITS , even if u consider NIT TRICHY , i wud say BITS is still better (search quora/ask seniors) , so there's no point in droping if u r getting M.Sc courses @ Hyd campus. I wud day even M.Sc BIO. CHANGING BRANCH IS EASIER THAN PARTIALLY DROPING AND GETTING 280+ req for IIIT-HYDERABAD !! (other colleges through mains are not as gud as BITS).
Pls think abt 2 year gap in your resume ! (Ask seniors how bad it is)
Pls tell what have u got in BITS counseling??
Ask @Anjali_arora didi for bio courses and branch change.